Extending Love Making Through Foreplay
by Natasha Radcliff
Sex Therapist

For many women foreplay isn't just the warm up, it's the game. So ensuring that you are giving your partner adequate foreplay isn't just a way to warm things up, it's a way to ensure that your partner's need for pleasure is met. It's a common misconception that all women “get off” through intercourse alone. In fact the largest majority of women only reach climax through external, or clitoral stimulation.

One of the things I suggest to my patients is including those most popular methods of foreplay into their sex cycle. For instance the addition of a personal vibrator during intercourse can increase your female partners feeling of involvement during sex as well as increasing their pleasure.

Another thing I suggest to my patients is to take a break from intercourse and go back to foreplay. Often times this allows the man to “reset” himself giving him a bit more longevity when it comes to intercourse. This also bring the woman back to a solid state of arousal allowing the love making session to not only last longer but to keep her more involved with the act.

There is another bonus for the take a break theory that I find many couple appreciate is the multi orgasmic aspect of mixing up intercourse with foreplay. By using the combination many woman who are not by nature multi orgasmic are able to climax multiple times. So not only will it extend your sex sessions it also will increase your partners pleasure and in turn increasing your partners libido.

Lastly a good tool for extending lovemaking is the cock ring. These wondrous devices allow men to stay erect even after ejaculation by preventing the blood to flow from the penis back into the body. Imagine then combining the ring with foreplay during sex, and taking a break from intercourse in order to concentrate of foreplay. Using all of these techniques together a couple could enjoy longer more satisfying sexual interludes on a regular basis.

So in short for any man that is wanting to extend their sex sessions these tips and tricks will allow you to be the stallion in bed that you've always wanted to be. All it takes is a little imagination, some inexpensive adult toys and changing up your techniques.