Size vs. Technique
by: Dr. Natasha Radcliff
Sex Therapist

For years there has been the argument over what is more important to women, size vs. technique when it comes to sex. Most men work off the principal that they have to be “well hung” in order to please their partners during intercourse. Studies have concluded that the size of the male member is less important than how you use it.

Men have been working under the impression for years that you must have a large member when it comes to pleasuring your partner, but in fact the “pole in the hole” theory of sex is incorrect. Even men with small penises can please their partners through an assortment of sexual techniques that will increase their pleasure as well as their partners.

Simple things like varying the thrust rhythm and speed can do wonders for your partner. Also changing positions can increase the satisfaction of your partner. For instance if you are a missionary man, trying a side resting position or doggy style will change the angle your penis enters your partner therefore reaching different areas and stimulating them in a new and exciting way. Adjusting your thrust rhythm during sex is also another wonderful way to change things up for your partner. During sex a regular rhythm will often times will bore your partner as their body adjusts and gets comfortable with your thrust cycle. By changing the cycle you introduce new excitement as your partner's body becomes anxious as to what you will do next. This increases their pleasure threshold as their body is now in a constant state of arousal during sex. The body is not able to lock onto a cycle and become numb to your ministrations.

Another excellent way to increase your partners pleasure during sex is by combining intercourse with external stimulation. It is a known fact that the majority of women do not reach climax through intercourse alone. Stimulation of the clit during sex will give them a new pleasure source and often allow a couple to climax together. This does take time to reach as you have to learn your partners timing for orgasm so that you can control when your partner reaches their peak and match that to your own timing. For men who feel that they are far to small to fully please their partners this is one of the best ways to ensure that both you and your lover have a truly mind blowing sexual experience.

Often times this leads to extended love making sessions as both you and your partner become more aroused during intercourse. Variety is the spice of life and sex and it's true about the old adage: It's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean. By making simple adjustments to position, thrust cycle and combining intercourse with external stimulation your partners enjoyment will increase ten fold.